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February 2018

Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD: How to Move on After Your Breakup

Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD: How to Move on After Your Breakup

Many individuals who break up with women with traits of BPD wonder if they will ever be able to find another partner. And there are several very good reasons they may feel pessimistic about […]

December 2017

Traits of BPD: Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have a Conscience?

Traits of BPD: Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have a Conscience?
There are many questions that people who find themselves in relationships with women on the spectrum of BPD or borderline personality disorder ask themselves. One of the most common questions is whether their ex girlfriend had a conscience. […]

April 2017

Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD-Why Did I Fall So Hard?

Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD:Why Did I Fall So Hard?

If you are one of those unlucky men who has experienced a breakup with a woman with traits of BPD, or borderline personality disorder, you probably discovered that the love you had for her did not go away […]

November 2016

Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD-The Defense Mechanism of Projection

Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD-The Defense Mechanism of Projection

In this blog post we will be addressing one of the more complex behavior patterns associated with BPD, or borderline personality disorder. The behavior pattern we will be looking at is commonly known as projection. Although you may not […]

June 2016

Women On The Spectrum of BPD: Did She Really Love Me?

Women on the Spectrum of BPD – Did She Really Love Me?

Falling in love is often thought to be one of the most amazing and enjoyable experiences a person can have. It can truly bring out the very best in each of us and can cause even the most […]

May 2016

Women on the Spectrum of BPD: Techniques That Stop Devaluation

Women on the Spectrum of BPD:Techniques That Stop Devaluation

In Part One of this blog series, Romantic Devaluation and Idealization In Women With Traits of BPD we explored the reasons why so many women on the spectrum of BPD devalue their romantic partners once the initial honeymoon phase comes to […]

April 2016

Women With Traits of BPD – Why Did She Lie?

Women With Traits of BPD – Why Did She Lie?

In this blog post we are going to be addressing the coping behavior of lying and why women with traits of BPD or borderline personality disorder so often engage in it. Although lying is not part of the criteria […]

March 2016

Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD – How To Let Go of the Good Times

Women With Traits of BPD:How To Let Go of the Good Times

Breaking up with a woman with traits of BPD or borderline personality disorder can be very painful. But one of the toughest aspects of these breakups is the persistent longing to get back that feeling of ultimate fulfillment […]

February 2016

BPD and the Nice Guy Personality Type

BPD and The Nice Guy Personality Type

Most people know that women with traits of BPD or borderline personality disorder share certain personality characteristics that create the behavior patterns we associate with the disorder. But what you might not know is that the men who enter relationships with women with […]

December 2015

Identifying Traits of BPD In Women Before Relationship Commitment

Identifying Traits of BPD In WomenBefore Relationship Commitment

In this blog post we are going to be answering a very important question. Can a man who has been through a breakup with a woman with traits of BPD, or borderline personality disorder, recognize the traits in the next woman he […]