Romantic Idealization And DevaluationIn Women With Traits of BPD
If you are like most men who have found themselves in a committed relationship with a woman with traits of borderline personality disorder or BPD, you probably started off feeling like you were the luckiest guy in the world. Here was […]
Defense Mechanisms Triggered By Humiliation
Part 4 of the blog series Disarming Defense Mechanisms
In Part 4 of this blog series we will be addressing the kind of defense mechanisms that can cause true human devastation. When feelings of humiliation are triggered by insecurity, defense mechanisms can go underground and […]
Women With Traits of BPD: Why She Can’t Say I’m Sorry
When She Won’t Admit She’s Wrong
In this blog post we are going to take a look at what is really behind this painful behavior pattern in women with traits of BPD. Once you understand the true motivation […]
Women With Traits of BPD: Regaining Her Trust
When Trust Is An Uphill Battle
You probably found out the hard way that a woman with traits of BPD often can’t trust. She may have at first disclosed her deepest secrets to you and may also have gotten you to tell her […]
Reversing Female Anger In Relationships – Techniques For Men
Part 2 of Female Anger In Relationships
In Part 1 we took a close look at this dynamic of female anger in relationships. We discovered that there is a very real explanation for why women feel the need to be protected from […]
Female Anger In Relationships
Part 1 – Why Is She Always Mad At Me?
If you are like many men, you have probably wondered if there is a double standard that lets women off the hook for their anger at the men they are romantically involved with. After all, they seem […]
Women With Traits of BPD: Why Can’t She Trust Me?
Understanding Why Women With Traits of BPD Lose Trust
If you have ever tried to get close to a woman with traits of borderline personality disorder, or BPD, you probably know firsthand that getting this individual to trust you is an […]
With this understanding of what makes the woman with traits of BPD engage in these destructive behavior patterns, let’s now turn to the question of why so many men stay even when it’s clear that the woman they are with is not capable of sustaining a healthy relationship. In […]
The bond that you formed with her may have been the strongest you have ever felt for another human being, and you may have very quickly been convinced that this was the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with. But what you might not have […]
Welcome to Part 3 of the Nicola Method Blog series on understanding high conflict women, those women who have some traits of borderline personality disorder, or BPD, but do not qualify for a diagnosis.
In Part 1 and Part 2 of this series we explored many of the differences between […]