In Part 2, What The Emotional Abuser Knows That We Don’t That Can Hurt Us, we took a look at the psychological motivation that even the abuser is not aware of that drives them to engage in this destructive behavior. We discovered that emotional abusers are always responding to […]
In Part 4 of Techniques That Stop Emotional Abuse you will be presented with an easy-to-use technique that will allow you to use all of the information that you have learned in the first three parts of this blog series to stop any emotional abuser from launching an emotional […]
In Part 1 and Part 2 of Can We Stop Emotional Abuse we learned that the reason so many people give up trying to stop emotional abuse is because they often lack the understanding of what drives an emotional abuser to hurt those around them.
We also took a guided […]
In Part 1 of the Nicola Method Blog series Can We Stop Emotional Abuse we took a look at the mechanics of emotional abuse. We discovered that the pattern of behavior that abusers use to try to hurt others is actually the same pattern of behavior that we all […]
Borderline Personality Disorder In Plain Language
Understanding The Traits of Borderline Personality Disorder
Borderline Personality Disorder is a very complicated condition and can be very difficult for the average person to understand. However, there are simple explanations for many of these puzzling behaviors. To start with, it can be helpful to […]
Have you always thought that emotional abuse was something that you had to learn to live with or lose the relationship? Many people give up trying to stop emotional abuse because they have been told it can’t be done. This misunderstanding can lead those who have been emotionally […]
Conflict Resolution Without Confrontation
Every couple encounters conflict from time to time. Although most of us accept that conflict is a normal part of married life, none of us enjoys hearing negative things about our behavior from those we love. This blog post is for anyone who has ever wished […]
Is Your Spouse On Your Side?
How To Keep a Cold Shoulder From Turning Into a Cold War
But there is a very simple sentence that can be used that will ensure you get your spouse on your side before one of these cold wars can set in. In this blog […]
These are people that don’t have relationship-threatening issues such as addictions or infidelity. They simply, over time, become unhappy in their marriage. This leaves a lot of couples wondering what they could do in order to keep their marriages intact.
In order to understand how marriages that start […]
Welcome to Part 3 of the Nicola Method Blog series on understanding high conflict women, those women who have some traits of borderline personality disorder, or BPD, but do not qualify for a diagnosis.
In Part 1 and Part 2 of this series we explored many of the differences between […]